yeah...m completely bowled over by this song these days...but the crux is i am kinda relating it to my own life...where is it goin...what is happening ...i am clueless...what do i want...is a big question?? There are certain important decisions to be taken...which i have been postponing for quite long...but i just cant decide cant make up my mind...n the biggest trouble is i dont know WHY?? i ve tonnes of impotant work to do n here i am bitten by this blog bug....pata nahi kya...
Dialogue of the post:
Meri laaj main,
Choonar bhi main,
Choonar pe daag bhi main.
yeah a line from a latest song...loved it...what a description of a woman!!
Saturday, October 6, 2007
Monday, October 1, 2007
Anger Management
I had been thinking of writing on this topic for quite sometime but last few days made an ideal mood for the same. Anger...one of the considered vices...how do u deal with it....suppress it , express it or ignore it or dont get angry at all...i believe last category is for people who have risen above others....which i surely have not...I tried the suppressing theory for quite many years....n in the beginning it did work too...u get a saint kinda image in people...a good person....but later i realised unexpressed anger makes u bitter inside...its like venom or magnum in a volcano...which has to burst someday...n when it does the effects are catastrophic....like once a friend of mine said "zaahir nahin karegi toh kya gussa nahin aaega"...
Then came the expressing theory....complaining to people on little things...u did this right n this wrong....in short expressing anger at every petty thing....this makes u even more bitter...u feel as if all the time u are lashing out at people....n u have given everyone the right to make u angry...If we think carefully what makes u feel more bad.... someone who shouts at u n tells u clearly whats the matter or the one about whom u know is angry but aint ready to tell u what the matter is...takes may be different here...
Case I person would lash out n his bitter words may hurt u forever...
Case II person wont say nethin..but somwhere in ur mind u ll always feel that the other person has some negativity in his mind about u....
But i believe we can laugh with just anyone but there are jus very few people on whom u can shout ur heart out without having to remember...what u said?
How much i wish there were a course in anger management...the most surprising thing about anger i ve observed is we get irritated at same things all the time...unable to accept others' behaviours and habits at the cost of our own being rejected or uncared....
Then came the expressing theory....complaining to people on little things...u did this right n this wrong....in short expressing anger at every petty thing....this makes u even more bitter...u feel as if all the time u are lashing out at people....n u have given everyone the right to make u angry...If we think carefully what makes u feel more bad.... someone who shouts at u n tells u clearly whats the matter or the one about whom u know is angry but aint ready to tell u what the matter is...takes may be different here...
Case I person would lash out n his bitter words may hurt u forever...
Case II person wont say nethin..but somwhere in ur mind u ll always feel that the other person has some negativity in his mind about u....
But i believe we can laugh with just anyone but there are jus very few people on whom u can shout ur heart out without having to remember...what u said?
How much i wish there were a course in anger management...the most surprising thing about anger i ve observed is we get irritated at same things all the time...unable to accept others' behaviours and habits at the cost of our own being rejected or uncared....
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