Although I am not the right person to write on this topic but still this word is with me for past few days.Relationships is one topic me which never stops to surprise me and I find them too intriguing.'Two-timing'...I have heard this word from many people and I know who have faced this.Also side by side I am yhen remembering the words of a person whose views were,'Why do you think we cannot love more than one person at a time?It is as normal as it is.Yes I mean two people at a time in that sense only.'I had no words to answer him to this and I still dont have.
And a few weeks back Times Life had covered a write up on people being comfortable with their spouse having another partner.This would be an open arrangement,the nice thing about this is that you are not cheating on your partner. People who two , do they think that their partner is so dumb that they wont get to know,what surprises me more is Do they love both or they do not love anyone?Is it a time pass?These things look pretty normal in colleges where people enter into relationships casually but 25-26 year old people doing this just for the sake of fun,Its a bit a too much.At this age, the person you would have been seeing for sometime would be planning to settle down with you and suddenly you get to know that there is someone else.I am not trying to judge the character of such people but why do they do it ?Is it so difficult to be truthful?Or Can you actually love two people in the same sense at the same time?
For everything which I am not able to understand I try to enter that situation.Can I fall for two people at one time?What if my partner also loves someone else?
Answer1-No
Answer2-Sorry we cannot be together,you love someone else,it means I could not give enough love also if I am giving my 100% why should I get 50%.I will always remember youand will miss you terribly at times but we cannot be together for sure.
And all those go through this situation would have different ways of handling it,but I still cant understand ek saath do logon se pyar kaise ????
Saturday, September 12, 2009
Babes!
I want to write about lots of things today...dont know where to start from.I have a question... from whom....from God I think....why do you need to send people with troubles to somebody who cannot do anything about those troubles.It is such a bad feeling when one is not able to do anything but listen.People go through tsunamis in their lives and I keep wondering at their endurance,they still smile,try to lead a normal life God only knows what goes on their heart.And there is one me who feels so helpless listening to their woes.I wish I had some srength to do something about it but no I can do nothing.I have seen her go through so much health wise and career wise and friends' behaviour wise and she still bears it all without any bitterness or complaints.
Why are you testing her so much??I cant see her like this anymore.Its enough she has seen enough... get her life back to normal.Finish her exam now........please.
Why are you testing her so much??I cant see her like this anymore.Its enough she has seen enough... get her life back to normal.Finish her exam now........please.
Saturday, July 25, 2009
A tribute to my kiney
It started in one kick today,it was really surprising!Everytime I kick my Kiney and the moment it starts I thank my MBA days' friends who taught me to kick it and put it on straight stand.There are some posessions you have which you can treat the way you want them to.My kiney is one of them,its breaks are just right enough to save you from banging into something,its horn is not working(I blame it on rainy season paani chala gaya hoga),its indicators work on their sweet will,thankfully there is nothing wrong with the headlight.
'Why dont you get it repaired'?
Me:No it is fine I know how to handle it.
'It will give up some day'.
Me:I'll manage it,I know it.
At 25 I dont feel like driving it anymore.It reminds me of being a college girl,which I am not anymore...why in this world am I writing about my Kiney?Everyone would have their personal vehicles these days ...but it has some really sweet memories attached to it.God I think about shwetz' kiney which we made total khatara in 2 years,I cant even recall how many times it stopped due to lack of fuel and everytime we had to request some class guy to fetch some petrol for us.I clearly remember how many times my graduatiion days' friends taught me to put it on straight stand but I could never learn the technique in three long years and every winter morning my dad would scold me for buying Kiney and not Honda Activa as I asked him to kick start it for me.It sounds funny now but I used be really irritated then listening to it on one hand and getting late for the cost accounts tuition.
And I cant forget the day when one of my aunty bought me an uncle type half face helmet for Rs.350 expecting me to wear it while driving,it perfectly suited my boy cut then.I looked really ugly then.
Even I dont know why am I wrting all this,all I know is its making me smile and laugh a bit at times,whenever I am sitting idle I dont from where n when such ages old sweet little things enter my head.
'Why dont you get it repaired'?
Me:No it is fine I know how to handle it.
'It will give up some day'.
Me:I'll manage it,I know it.
At 25 I dont feel like driving it anymore.It reminds me of being a college girl,which I am not anymore...why in this world am I writing about my Kiney?Everyone would have their personal vehicles these days ...but it has some really sweet memories attached to it.God I think about shwetz' kiney which we made total khatara in 2 years,I cant even recall how many times it stopped due to lack of fuel and everytime we had to request some class guy to fetch some petrol for us.I clearly remember how many times my graduatiion days' friends taught me to put it on straight stand but I could never learn the technique in three long years and every winter morning my dad would scold me for buying Kiney and not Honda Activa as I asked him to kick start it for me.It sounds funny now but I used be really irritated then listening to it on one hand and getting late for the cost accounts tuition.
And I cant forget the day when one of my aunty bought me an uncle type half face helmet for Rs.350 expecting me to wear it while driving,it perfectly suited my boy cut then.I looked really ugly then.
Even I dont know why am I wrting all this,all I know is its making me smile and laugh a bit at times,whenever I am sitting idle I dont from where n when such ages old sweet little things enter my head.
Saturday, July 18, 2009
Something About Nothing
She wanted to meet him.Why?She never thought about it.Actually she knew the answer but never gave it much attention.And one fine day they met.She said a meek Hi to which he did not respond.She knew by meeting her he was doing her a favor but never expected him to make her realise this with his behavior.She was getting kind of numb and was trembling a bit when they met.She thought probably he was also going through the same state.She noticed his face was expressionless.No smile, no warmth in his eyes as if he was under some obligation.
They spoke about everything but themselves.That short meeting got over soon.And he said Bye to her,it was the driest 'Bye' she had ever heard in her life.She replied and went away.
She was surprised at the illusion she had of him and the real him.She had always thought of him as a courteous guy,though he was so but far away from her image of his.She was aware of her misbehaviors and thought probably she deserved such behaviorfrom him.For a moment she kept herself at his place and thought that she would have never left her basic warmth.
She was disturbed not because of difference in real him and the image but coz she had lost her friend of illusion for good,that image which understood her completely and accepted her the way she was.She was doubting her sense of judgement about others.Then her cell beeped'It was a pleasure meeting you.'
This statement teased her,coz she knew it was sheer lie, a statement said for the sake of saying without meaning it.She did not respond,she was leaving that alien city and was leaving much more behind her, a person whom she was so fond of,whom she treated as she wished,was an illusion,mere illusion.
She was not sad but numb which was her most natural state in ecstacy and pain.She left and he remained as inexpressive as he always was.
They spoke about everything but themselves.That short meeting got over soon.And he said Bye to her,it was the driest 'Bye' she had ever heard in her life.She replied and went away.
She was surprised at the illusion she had of him and the real him.She had always thought of him as a courteous guy,though he was so but far away from her image of his.She was aware of her misbehaviors and thought probably she deserved such behaviorfrom him.For a moment she kept herself at his place and thought that she would have never left her basic warmth.
She was disturbed not because of difference in real him and the image but coz she had lost her friend of illusion for good,that image which understood her completely and accepted her the way she was.She was doubting her sense of judgement about others.Then her cell beeped'It was a pleasure meeting you.'
This statement teased her,coz she knew it was sheer lie, a statement said for the sake of saying without meaning it.She did not respond,she was leaving that alien city and was leaving much more behind her, a person whom she was so fond of,whom she treated as she wished,was an illusion,mere illusion.
She was not sad but numb which was her most natural state in ecstacy and pain.She left and he remained as inexpressive as he always was.
Sunday, June 14, 2009
Money
I spend one whole night listening to 200 customers' queries/problems/anger over phone and then earn this Rs. 300 drink,and that sonuvab**** has bought it out of his super rich dad's money,he does not know its worth.-Vroom-One night @ call center.
'Atlas shrugged' also had some nice things to say about money,'it is a reward for your efforts'.If you are working for some company,there must be some moments when you ask yourself,' why am I here?Is this what I wanted to do?I wonder til when can I cary on like this'?And then you see your salary being credited to your account and you think about all the hard days you've had had the last month.How many days you had to sit late?How many annoyed customers you faced and tried to soothe them and loosing your own cool without letting them know.And suddenly all this seems bearable.That money makes up for everything.I have met certain people who behave as if money does not matter it is the work satisfaction/love for their work which matters,the hypocricy in their words astonishes me.An amateur can say these words but work satisfaction cannot be the sole aim of their work.
Have you ever heard of that adage,'the person who has lent you money never forgets'.How true it is because money is the only thing which you expect directly after your efforts, be it a labour or a CEO of a company,it is the first and the closest thing that belongs to you. And if you give it to someone else(not speaking about gifts/philanthropy) you are giving them your return for the hardest moments you faced,therefore you remember that you had given it to him.It is ironical that it is considered mannerless to ask for your own money from someone who had borrowed.
When you try to bargain,or want to buy stuff during off season you are looked down upon.I wonder why?If you can get the same stuff for a lesser amount by a little effort then why not?I am being very blunt here but in real life situations demand you to behave accordingly but inside you your heart keeps saying,' Hey you were not gifted this on a platter you EARNED it'.
'Atlas shrugged' also had some nice things to say about money,'it is a reward for your efforts'.If you are working for some company,there must be some moments when you ask yourself,' why am I here?Is this what I wanted to do?I wonder til when can I cary on like this'?And then you see your salary being credited to your account and you think about all the hard days you've had had the last month.How many days you had to sit late?How many annoyed customers you faced and tried to soothe them and loosing your own cool without letting them know.And suddenly all this seems bearable.That money makes up for everything.I have met certain people who behave as if money does not matter it is the work satisfaction/love for their work which matters,the hypocricy in their words astonishes me.An amateur can say these words but work satisfaction cannot be the sole aim of their work.
Have you ever heard of that adage,'the person who has lent you money never forgets'.How true it is because money is the only thing which you expect directly after your efforts, be it a labour or a CEO of a company,it is the first and the closest thing that belongs to you. And if you give it to someone else(not speaking about gifts/philanthropy) you are giving them your return for the hardest moments you faced,therefore you remember that you had given it to him.It is ironical that it is considered mannerless to ask for your own money from someone who had borrowed.
When you try to bargain,or want to buy stuff during off season you are looked down upon.I wonder why?If you can get the same stuff for a lesser amount by a little effort then why not?I am being very blunt here but in real life situations demand you to behave accordingly but inside you your heart keeps saying,' Hey you were not gifted this on a platter you EARNED it'.
Sunday, May 10, 2009
In pursuit of Happiness
Ask anybody,'Do you want to be happy?'and the answer would come yes ofcourse who doesnt?And what are you doing to get that happiness?Mmmmmm.....many people wont have a clear cut answer to this.
I think about the last scene of 'Luck by chance' where the protagonist says,'Everyday i leave my house to do a work which makes me happy, i wonder how many people can say that, i have chosen a path of happiness.'A few days back i did something which i felt i should have done years back,its outcome was zero but it was a step towards something which could 've made me happy.I regret the fact that i take ages in deciding on things, that i took so long to realise things and most importantly for holding on to a thing for so long without doing anything about it.
And I think about a few people who are always in high spirits not just externally but internally too.There are no volcanoes errupting,there is no uneasiness,there is no misery nothing only full control over themselves.It is high time i come out of this unhappy state,its high time i accept facts as they are,its high time i let you go,its high time i MOVE ON towards a happier state of mind.
Hitakshi
I think about the last scene of 'Luck by chance' where the protagonist says,'Everyday i leave my house to do a work which makes me happy, i wonder how many people can say that, i have chosen a path of happiness.'A few days back i did something which i felt i should have done years back,its outcome was zero but it was a step towards something which could 've made me happy.I regret the fact that i take ages in deciding on things, that i took so long to realise things and most importantly for holding on to a thing for so long without doing anything about it.
And I think about a few people who are always in high spirits not just externally but internally too.There are no volcanoes errupting,there is no uneasiness,there is no misery nothing only full control over themselves.It is high time i come out of this unhappy state,its high time i accept facts as they are,its high time i let you go,its high time i MOVE ON towards a happier state of mind.
Hitakshi
Sunday, May 3, 2009
The most interesting movie!
The most interesting movie i saw
with so many thrills and stills,
the moment i thought i knew its end
the director came up with some all new trend,
the director i must say is over smart
who does his job too well and is master of his art.
The movie has all ingridients-from drama to action
from comedy to confession,love,hatred,heart breaks and recession.
Everyday comes up with a new episode,
artists planned,thought,devised but the director would explode.
Artists asked director with innocent faces
Why are you so unpredicatble?
Director says,'Just to keep your faith in me and my power'.
That movie is endless where artists come n go but the director remains with his movie,
N what's the name of the movie....mmmmmmmmm lets call it life!
with so many thrills and stills,
the moment i thought i knew its end
the director came up with some all new trend,
the director i must say is over smart
who does his job too well and is master of his art.
The movie has all ingridients-from drama to action
from comedy to confession,love,hatred,heart breaks and recession.
Everyday comes up with a new episode,
artists planned,thought,devised but the director would explode.
Artists asked director with innocent faces
Why are you so unpredicatble?
Director says,'Just to keep your faith in me and my power'.
That movie is endless where artists come n go but the director remains with his movie,
N what's the name of the movie....mmmmmmmmm lets call it life!
I DONT LOVE YOU
Had been thinking of writing about this for quite long.You know what,"He made me fall in love with himself.I could not believe in my life that somebody so sweet existed till he came.He was so loving and affectionate that i could not resist falling in love with him".These were the words of a dear friend expressed long back.
I wonder if everybody is so lucky or should i say expressive.Putting across your feelings to the other person in exactly the manner you actually feel is quite a task.I have often seen guys consistently trying to woo and win over the love of their life.They carry on even after several nos and embarassments.It feels like hell to hear a NO.Moreover society puts you in a stupid category called FOSLA.How one is supposed to deal with a No.Sorry i dont love you.Does one No changes your feelings towards a person?People who are not that out going wont express it again.Probably they'll stop thinking on those lines and think of being friends with that person.This complicates things even more.The comfort level of friendship is gone even if the two individuals deal with it maturely something hollow enters amongst them.
The best solution i could think about this situation is dont befool yourself by saying I dont love that person anymore,just give yourself some time(which may be years!) it is hurting to hear a No from someone you loved but feelings are a natural phenomenon,think about all those people who would 've fallen for you but you could not reciprocate the same way thinking he/she is not the one.And most importantly feel proud that you experienced a magical thing called love for someone.There always remains a wish 'i wish i could make him /her fall for myself' but you cannot may be you are shy, may be he/she has feelings for someone else,whatever the case may be just dont get depressed and be honest to your own self 'Yes i did love him' and feel proud of it and carry on with your life coz it 'll never stop.
Hitakshi
I wonder if everybody is so lucky or should i say expressive.Putting across your feelings to the other person in exactly the manner you actually feel is quite a task.I have often seen guys consistently trying to woo and win over the love of their life.They carry on even after several nos and embarassments.It feels like hell to hear a NO.Moreover society puts you in a stupid category called FOSLA.How one is supposed to deal with a No.Sorry i dont love you.Does one No changes your feelings towards a person?People who are not that out going wont express it again.Probably they'll stop thinking on those lines and think of being friends with that person.This complicates things even more.The comfort level of friendship is gone even if the two individuals deal with it maturely something hollow enters amongst them.
The best solution i could think about this situation is dont befool yourself by saying I dont love that person anymore,just give yourself some time(which may be years!) it is hurting to hear a No from someone you loved but feelings are a natural phenomenon,think about all those people who would 've fallen for you but you could not reciprocate the same way thinking he/she is not the one.And most importantly feel proud that you experienced a magical thing called love for someone.There always remains a wish 'i wish i could make him /her fall for myself' but you cannot may be you are shy, may be he/she has feelings for someone else,whatever the case may be just dont get depressed and be honest to your own self 'Yes i did love him' and feel proud of it and carry on with your life coz it 'll never stop.
Hitakshi
Thursday, April 9, 2009
Numb
I wonder does it happen to others too?I think its a bit abnormal.I am getting mentally numb.Somebody shouted at me today,somebody told something funny,i faced a terrible accident right in front of my eyes,somebody else also spoke in a rude way,somebody showed his rolex,somebody bought a new car,somebody just got engaged and i feel absolutely nothing,I am getting reactionless.Everything around is fine but i feel like a Ghost not at all interested in anything.
I believe its not fine to feel like this at the age of 24 but thats how I feel ,the only time I feel alive is when I speak to those little kids,their shining bright eyes are infectious.'Dids kaisa gaya din'?I 'll say good.I ask them back and they start off from Maths class to Science class to canteen to tuition,they keep speaking non stop till their whole day's description ends.
At my age people are raring to go, new ambitions for life- loads of money ,swanky cars,big houses,parties etc etc.I feel desireless for all such things.Not that I want a spartan life but right now these things dont seem to be so important.
I am not sad or depressed,I am just trying to understand what am I feeling.Its a hollow sinking feeling as if I am missing something badly but dont know what it is.It is as if life around me is running at a break neck speed and I am standing still unaffected,as if nothing matters,as if I am in some deep sleep with eyes wide open.I wake up n everything around is fine but there is some storm going on inside,wish I could make out what it is!
I believe its not fine to feel like this at the age of 24 but thats how I feel ,the only time I feel alive is when I speak to those little kids,their shining bright eyes are infectious.'Dids kaisa gaya din'?I 'll say good.I ask them back and they start off from Maths class to Science class to canteen to tuition,they keep speaking non stop till their whole day's description ends.
At my age people are raring to go, new ambitions for life- loads of money ,swanky cars,big houses,parties etc etc.I feel desireless for all such things.Not that I want a spartan life but right now these things dont seem to be so important.
I am not sad or depressed,I am just trying to understand what am I feeling.Its a hollow sinking feeling as if I am missing something badly but dont know what it is.It is as if life around me is running at a break neck speed and I am standing still unaffected,as if nothing matters,as if I am in some deep sleep with eyes wide open.I wake up n everything around is fine but there is some storm going on inside,wish I could make out what it is!
Saturday, March 21, 2009
The 'Critique'
"Honey,What makes you think that you can write?Have you seen your language?Do you know the word 'Expression'?I wonder how can you even dare to ask someone to read your crappy writings and on the top of it you expect some feedback".This was the exaggerated derivation of her response to my simple question,"How did you find that write up?"She goes,"I did not like it AT ALL".
Silence...silence....silence...Mmmmm..."What did you not like about it?"Silence...silence...silence...I repeated the question...."I am not telling you that". End of conversation.
I just tried to analyse her voice,there was no feeling of guilt or fear in her voice.Guilt of how good or bad I 'll feel after hearing this and fear of straining our relationship.Her voice was as straight as it could be.
I think about that quote I read some centuries back'Nindak Niyaare Raakhiye'(Keep a critique in your company).Its better to be hurt by a biitter truth than to live by a sweet lie.It is such a great thing to have people around you who can dare to say anything in your face.It makes you feel so comfortable.Thank you for being so honest,I respect you so much for this.
She herself being an amazing writer,evrything she writes is so heartfelt and clear that sometimes I get speechless.I 'll really try to match your expectations and someday hear from you 'That was good'.
DIALOGUE OF THE POST:No filmy dialogue this time....'I did not like it AT ALL'-Anonymous.
Silence...silence....silence...Mmmmm..."What did you not like about it?"Silence...silence...silence...I repeated the question...."I am not telling you that". End of conversation.
I just tried to analyse her voice,there was no feeling of guilt or fear in her voice.Guilt of how good or bad I 'll feel after hearing this and fear of straining our relationship.Her voice was as straight as it could be.
I think about that quote I read some centuries back'Nindak Niyaare Raakhiye'(Keep a critique in your company).Its better to be hurt by a biitter truth than to live by a sweet lie.It is such a great thing to have people around you who can dare to say anything in your face.It makes you feel so comfortable.Thank you for being so honest,I respect you so much for this.
She herself being an amazing writer,evrything she writes is so heartfelt and clear that sometimes I get speechless.I 'll really try to match your expectations and someday hear from you 'That was good'.
DIALOGUE OF THE POST:No filmy dialogue this time....'I did not like it AT ALL'-Anonymous.
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
Any Questions!!
I think about Munna bhai part II n that scene where a twenty something girl has to see a guy for the first time before marriage and is confused how would she decide that he is the right one for him...n gets some wise suggestion from Munna bhai n leaves happily to meet him n actually decides later.
Now coming on to the real life most conversations in an arranged marriage for the first time start from the guy's side and its as usual...which eventually reaches the point' Do you have any questions?'No no feel free to ask...(Now dont start running your mind horses thinking how many such encounters i would have faced!)
What would any girl want to know about her life partner to be?Would she ever be able to ask what she actually wants to know?After a tiny 10 minutes meeting she'll be asked 'How did you find him?'...N she would look at her mom saying in the eyes ony...'Dont you know i take ages to decide on people?'Most of the times she never gets a chance...coz no one will ask her.The list of questions would be something like following (Dont you dare laugh at them!)
Are you good at English?(No mine is quite average...at least my partner should be good at it!)
Would you let me do my job after marriage? (If you say no let us both consider other options!)
Would you let me leave my job and sit at home doing nothing anytime i want?
Would you try to adapt to my hobbies like i would try to adapt yours like interest in sports,listening to News,interest in your stock market etc. etc.?
Would you let me wear clothes of my choice after marriage?
Would you let me be friends with the people i knew years before i came to know you?
Would you be as good to my folks as good i''ll be with yours?
Would your love still last if i put on and not look as good as i look today?
Do you have a past?If yes,would you be able to start afresh with me...leaving the past memories behind?
I am quite short tempered...would you be able to understand that whatever i say is just for the moment and i treat you that ways coz i take right on you n i dont carry forward any bittrness?
Huh!
These and many more but as far as I have seen,there are just three things which are important-Family,Kundli,Guy's earning.Full stop.
N those questions what about them and that 'SPARK' which you can just feel and not define, that connection which you feel or you do not...nothing about it!
There are two categories:one who find their partners themselves n others who happily accept what comes to their destiny.And then there are the third kinds who do not want to accept whatever comes their way...they feel,they know what they want but are surronded by the usual pressures...something inside keeps saying your money,your good looks,your being in a foreign land they are not sufficient...A good human being with right values,with right attitude is what is required .They keep hoping ...someday they'll find all the answers !
Now coming on to the real life most conversations in an arranged marriage for the first time start from the guy's side and its as usual...which eventually reaches the point' Do you have any questions?'No no feel free to ask...(Now dont start running your mind horses thinking how many such encounters i would have faced!)
What would any girl want to know about her life partner to be?Would she ever be able to ask what she actually wants to know?After a tiny 10 minutes meeting she'll be asked 'How did you find him?'...N she would look at her mom saying in the eyes ony...'Dont you know i take ages to decide on people?'Most of the times she never gets a chance...coz no one will ask her.The list of questions would be something like following (Dont you dare laugh at them!)
Are you good at English?(No mine is quite average...at least my partner should be good at it!)
Would you let me do my job after marriage? (If you say no let us both consider other options!)
Would you let me leave my job and sit at home doing nothing anytime i want?
Would you try to adapt to my hobbies like i would try to adapt yours like interest in sports,listening to News,interest in your stock market etc. etc.?
Would you let me wear clothes of my choice after marriage?
Would you let me be friends with the people i knew years before i came to know you?
Would you be as good to my folks as good i''ll be with yours?
Would your love still last if i put on and not look as good as i look today?
Do you have a past?If yes,would you be able to start afresh with me...leaving the past memories behind?
I am quite short tempered...would you be able to understand that whatever i say is just for the moment and i treat you that ways coz i take right on you n i dont carry forward any bittrness?
Huh!
These and many more but as far as I have seen,there are just three things which are important-Family,Kundli,Guy's earning.Full stop.
N those questions what about them and that 'SPARK' which you can just feel and not define, that connection which you feel or you do not...nothing about it!
There are two categories:one who find their partners themselves n others who happily accept what comes to their destiny.And then there are the third kinds who do not want to accept whatever comes their way...they feel,they know what they want but are surronded by the usual pressures...something inside keeps saying your money,your good looks,your being in a foreign land they are not sufficient...A good human being with right values,with right attitude is what is required .They keep hoping ...someday they'll find all the answers !
DIALOGUE OF THE POST:Ek hi toh zindagi hai di...aise hi kisi ke saath kaise guzar doon!(Konkana sen sharma to Shilpa shetty)-LIFE IN A METRO
Monday, January 5, 2009
AUTONOMY
This is New year's first post and after a long hiatus...thought of writing a topic about which i strongly believe.
'Autonomy' a very powerful word...the freedom of power to take decisions for yourself.It seems quite ordinary that what is so big deal about it ?If you think a little deeply just how many people have this power?
How many kids are given freedom to choose a career they want to persue?
How many daughter-in-laws have freedom to wear their choice of clothes once they enter a joint family...forget about clothes..the freedom to go out with their husbands or freedom to cook food of their choice?People living in Metros or cosmopolitan cities may find it a non existing thing but this a reality in rest of our country.
Let me decide for myself what is right or wrong for me.Let me be my own boss,my own decision maker.Let me watch my actions...leave me free...let me flourish...let me open my wings...Dont put me in shackles....This is what my heart says when i see people without 'Autonomy' in their life...and the worst thing is they never demand it...may be they dont know what it is to be free or they dont have the strength to fight for this right...they'll lie,they'll hide...will do everything but fight for this right which i believe is as important as any fundamental right.
Each one's life belongs to themselves...why waste it living according to others?It may be selfish ,it may be mean but just to fit in somebody else's right norms why do people ignore/overlook their own norms.
I feel glad and blessed that i have been given the power and right to live as per i feel right,it makes me feel stronger,independent and congrtas everyone who has this right and knows its worth!
Dialogue of the post:Translated..."I want to live my life the way i want to.Even if my decision turns wrong in future...i will be responsible for it.At least i wont have any regrets that i did not follow my heart and listened to somebody else.(Kareena Kapoor...Jab we met.)
'Autonomy' a very powerful word...the freedom of power to take decisions for yourself.It seems quite ordinary that what is so big deal about it ?If you think a little deeply just how many people have this power?
How many kids are given freedom to choose a career they want to persue?
How many daughter-in-laws have freedom to wear their choice of clothes once they enter a joint family...forget about clothes..the freedom to go out with their husbands or freedom to cook food of their choice?People living in Metros or cosmopolitan cities may find it a non existing thing but this a reality in rest of our country.
Let me decide for myself what is right or wrong for me.Let me be my own boss,my own decision maker.Let me watch my actions...leave me free...let me flourish...let me open my wings...Dont put me in shackles....This is what my heart says when i see people without 'Autonomy' in their life...and the worst thing is they never demand it...may be they dont know what it is to be free or they dont have the strength to fight for this right...they'll lie,they'll hide...will do everything but fight for this right which i believe is as important as any fundamental right.
Each one's life belongs to themselves...why waste it living according to others?It may be selfish ,it may be mean but just to fit in somebody else's right norms why do people ignore/overlook their own norms.
I feel glad and blessed that i have been given the power and right to live as per i feel right,it makes me feel stronger,independent and congrtas everyone who has this right and knows its worth!
Dialogue of the post:Translated..."I want to live my life the way i want to.Even if my decision turns wrong in future...i will be responsible for it.At least i wont have any regrets that i did not follow my heart and listened to somebody else.(Kareena Kapoor...Jab we met.)
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