Any Questions!!

I think about Munna bhai part II n that scene where a twenty something girl has to see a guy for the first time before marriage and is confused how would she decide that he is the right one for him...n gets some wise suggestion from Munna bhai n leaves happily to meet him n actually decides later.

Now coming on to the real life most conversations in an arranged marriage for the first time start from the guy's side and its as usual...which eventually reaches the point' Do you have any questions?'No no feel free to ask...(Now dont start running your mind horses thinking how many such encounters i would have faced!)

What would any girl want to know about her life partner to be?Would she ever be able to ask what she actually wants to know?After a tiny 10 minutes meeting she'll be asked 'How did you find him?'...N she would look at her mom saying in the eyes ony...'Dont you know i take ages to decide on people?'Most of the times she never gets a chance...coz no one will ask her.The list of questions would be something like following (Dont you dare laugh at them!)

Are you good at English?(No mine is quite average...at least my partner should be good at it!)
Would you let me do my job after marriage? (If you say no let us both consider other options!)
Would you let me leave my job and sit at home doing nothing anytime i want?
Would you try to adapt to my hobbies like i would try to adapt yours like interest in sports,listening to News,interest in your stock market etc. etc.?
Would you let me wear clothes of my choice after marriage?
Would you let me be friends with the people i knew years before i came to know you?
Would you be as good to my folks as good i''ll be with yours?
Would your love still last if i put on and not look as good as i look today?
Do you have a past?If yes,would you be able to start afresh with me...leaving the past memories behind?
I am quite short tempered...would you be able to understand that whatever i say is just for the moment and i treat you that ways coz i take right on you n i dont carry forward any bittrness?
Huh!
These and many more but as far as I have seen,there are just three things which are important-Family,Kundli,Guy's earning.Full stop.

N those questions what about them and that 'SPARK' which you can just feel and not define, that connection which you feel or you do not...nothing about it!

There are two categories:one who find their partners themselves n others who happily accept what comes to their destiny.And then there are the third kinds who do not want to accept whatever comes their way...they feel,they know what they want but are surronded by the usual pressures...something inside keeps saying your money,your good looks,your being in a foreign land they are not sufficient...A good human being with right values,with right attitude is what is required .They keep hoping ...someday they'll find all the answers !

DIALOGUE OF THE POST:Ek hi toh zindagi hai di...aise hi kisi ke saath kaise guzar doon!(Konkana sen sharma to Shilpa shetty)-LIFE IN A METRO