Had been thinking of writing about this for quite long.You know what,"He made me fall in love with himself.I could not believe in my life that somebody so sweet existed till he came.He was so loving and affectionate that i could not resist falling in love with him".These were the words of a dear friend expressed long back.
I wonder if everybody is so lucky or should i say expressive.Putting across your feelings to the other person in exactly the manner you actually feel is quite a task.I have often seen guys consistently trying to woo and win over the love of their life.They carry on even after several nos and embarassments.It feels like hell to hear a NO.Moreover society puts you in a stupid category called FOSLA.How one is supposed to deal with a No.Sorry i dont love you.Does one No changes your feelings towards a person?People who are not that out going wont express it again.Probably they'll stop thinking on those lines and think of being friends with that person.This complicates things even more.The comfort level of friendship is gone even if the two individuals deal with it maturely something hollow enters amongst them.
The best solution i could think about this situation is dont befool yourself by saying I dont love that person anymore,just give yourself some time(which may be years!) it is hurting to hear a No from someone you loved but feelings are a natural phenomenon,think about all those people who would 've fallen for you but you could not reciprocate the same way thinking he/she is not the one.And most importantly feel proud that you experienced a magical thing called love for someone.There always remains a wish 'i wish i could make him /her fall for myself' but you cannot may be you are shy, may be he/she has feelings for someone else,whatever the case may be just dont get depressed and be honest to your own self 'Yes i did love him' and feel proud of it and carry on with your life coz it 'll never stop.
Hitakshi
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