Saturday, September 12, 2009

Two Timing

Although I am not the right person to write on this topic but still this word is with me for past few days.Relationships is one topic me which never stops to surprise me and I find them too intriguing.'Two-timing'...I have heard this word from many people and I know who have faced this.Also side by side I am yhen remembering the words of a person whose views were,'Why do you think we cannot love more than one person at a time?It is as normal as it is.Yes I mean two people at a time in that sense only.'I had no words to answer him to this and I still dont have.

And a few weeks back Times Life had covered a write up on people being comfortable with their spouse having another partner.This would be an open arrangement,the nice thing about this is that you are not cheating on your partner. People who two , do they think that their partner is so dumb that they wont get to know,what surprises me more is Do they love both or they do not love anyone?Is it a time pass?These things look pretty normal in colleges where people enter into relationships casually but 25-26 year old people doing this just for the sake of fun,Its a bit a too much.At this age, the person you would have been seeing for sometime would be planning to settle down with you and suddenly you get to know that there is someone else.I am not trying to judge the character of such people but why do they do it ?Is it so difficult to be truthful?Or Can you actually love two people in the same sense at the same time?

For everything which I am not able to understand I try to enter that situation.Can I fall for two people at one time?What if my partner also loves someone else?
Answer1-No
Answer2-Sorry we cannot be together,you love someone else,it means I could not give enough love also if I am giving my 100% why should I get 50%.I will always remember youand will miss you terribly at times but we cannot be together for sure.

And all those go through this situation would have different ways of handling it,but I still cant understand ek saath do logon se pyar kaise ????

Babes!

I want to write about lots of things today...dont know where to start from.I have a question... from whom....from God I think....why do you need to send people with troubles to somebody who cannot do anything about those troubles.It is such a bad feeling when one is not able to do anything but listen.People go through tsunamis in their lives and I keep wondering at their endurance,they still smile,try to lead a normal life God only knows what goes on their heart.And there is one me who feels so helpless listening to their woes.I wish I had some srength to do something about it but no I can do nothing.I have seen her go through so much health wise and career wise and friends' behaviour wise and she still bears it all without any bitterness or complaints.
Why are you testing her so much??I cant see her like this anymore.Its enough she has seen enough... get her life back to normal.Finish her exam now........please.